A Guide for Introverts Studying at University
If you’re an introvert, student life on a busy city campus might seem daunting at first. But don’t worry, you’re not alone in feeling this way.
Whether you thrive on social interaction, or you’re happy spending time alone, remember that everyone is different.
To help you get settled, here are some top tips for finding your place as an introvert:
5 tips for making the most of uni as an introvert
1. Meet people in small groups
Heading to a large social event on your own can be overwhelming for anybody! If you live with flatmates, attend events together so you can support each other and meet new people at the same time. Otherwise, look for ways to connect with others at your own pace, in a more intimate setting. Don’t feel pressured to make lots of new friends, you can focus on making a few close bonds which is just as meaningful!
Why not find a small club or society that aligns with your interests, or a join a sports club? These groups are perfect for meeting likeminded people, whilst avoiding the larger crowds.
2. Find quiet spaces on campus
Campus can get busy and noisy during term time, but there are always quiet corners to be found. Whether it’s a solitary study space or a bench in a local park, finding your own quiet space can be a great way to recharge between classes.
Whilst your lectures can get busy too, you will likely only be expected to speak to your immediate neighbours. This is a great way to introduce yourself to someone on your course in a casual setting!
3. Make the most of one-on-one connections
If you thrive in smaller group settings, you could take the initiative to reach out to classmates, flatmates, or fellow society members to hang out one-to-one. Inviting someone for a coffee, a walk, or a study session can be a great way to build connections over time!
Everyone is different, so don’t feel that you have to be the life of the party to make friends. Having a balance of friends who enjoying going out, with those who prefer to stay in, is just as valuable.
4. Set boundaries and take time for yourself
It’s important to recognise when you need to take a step back and recharge your social battery. Meeting new people, while rewarding, can also be draining for introverts. So don’t be afraid to set boundaries and prioritize your own wellbeing.
Enjoying your free time alone is important too - whether it’s a personal movie night or just listening to your favourite music. Taking care of yourself is essential to avoid burning out.
5. Push yourself every so often
Although it’s good to know your limits, there is value in stepping outside your comfort zone too. For example, you could sign up for a new activity but visit the space beforehand to get a feel for it. Familiarizing yourself with the environment can reduce your anxiety and improve the experience!
Also, you should consider the benefits of taking on a part-time job. Working in a structured setting will give you a chance to meet new people who share your interests, whilst also building your confidence and communication skills. Check out our tips on finding a part time job and balancing a part time job with your studies.
